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what to do if your boyfriend is acting distant

 


Hey there, 

You must know that it's pretty difficult to judge what a guy's THINKING from the way he's ACTING.

Just about every woman I know - client or friend - has griped at some point about "guy talk" and how men frequently seem to actively mask their true intent with bizarre and misleading actions and behaviors.

Some of the most common complaints that I hear:

  • They hang out in large, blokey groups while "on the pull", and indulge in chugging games, belching, and catcalling (while honestly believing that they're really trying hard to attract a woman.)
  • They try to portray themselves as "players", whose major claim to fame is an ability to seduce any woman they want.
  • They try to flirt with you by using toilet humor and making themselves the butt of jokes (hardly the stuff of romance novels!)
  • They assure a woman that they're interested in a committed and loving relationship - and then disappear the next morning.
  • They act aloof and disinterested around a woman they like - when in FACT, they're just intimidated by her beauty, charm, or intelligence.

There are soooo many different ways that men inadvertently confuse us women!

And it's not just CONFUSION that's the issue here. In fact, some men can act in ways that actually TURN WOMEN OFF.

After all, who's actually attracted to a modern-day Don Juan, a self-deprecating bad flirt, or an 'I'm-above-it-all' King of Cool?

The saddest part? Most of these guys aren't even doing it on purpose. Usually, these behaviors are being used as an ego shield - something to hide their REAL personality (and insecurities) behind.

But does the average woman have any clue that this is what he's up to? Of course not!

She just gets confused, disgruntled, and - ultimately - discouraged by his apparent lack of interest, lack of subtlety, or cavalier approach to sexual love.

So how do you get a guy to drop the act and just be his REAL SELF? How do you get him to ditch the fa�ade and get authentic about who he really is - and what he really wants?

How are you supposed to figure him out, if he can't even be straight up about the most basic things??

Fortunately, the power IS in your hands. By including just a few tried-and-true methods in your bag of social tricks, you can set him at ease and get him to relax enough to reveal his truth.

(By 'his truth', I mean his sense of authenticity ... his real personality, who he REALLY is, and what he REALLY wants.)

Incidentally, being your authentic self is an INCREDIBLY attractive characteristic to possess. But it's not easy - most of us have been brought up to act and behave in a certain way. We've been taught to mask parts of ourselves that others might find unattractive.

When you're able to be your true, honest self, and embrace CLARITY in your personality and life, everything literally just seems to fall into place. Life becomes much easier - and you'll finally start attracting the kind of men who are prepared to love the REAL YOU.

I can point you towards a fantastic course that'll teach you how to attract the right kindof man for you, and make him love you, trust you,and ultimately commit to you

You'll find that course right here:

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Let's take a look at the 3 main problem-male personas that women who are active on the dating scene face.

 

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